It’s Monday! But more importantly in my world, it’s the start of the U.S. Open! Apologies in advance if you’re not into tennis, but there’s a pretty big chance there’ll be a lot of tennis on the blog and in my Twitter feed the next two weeks. I’ll be linking a lot of the stuff I’m writing (I’m covering 4 players for various newspapers) here and on Twitter. I’m beyond psyched and beyond lucky to get to watch tennis and make a little $ doing it. Here are two things I wrote last week: First, a look at U.S Top 50 women’s player Madison Brengle for her home state newspaper in Delaware, and then a profile of rising American player Lauren Davis for the Cleveland Plain-Dealer.
It’s extraordinarily rare that anything that happens in an NFL preseason game is worth talking about.
But Saturday night and all day Sunday social media and the sports world were all up in arms over what a once-famous but now kinda forgotten NFL quarterback did.
During the national anthem before the San Francisco 49ers game Saturday, Colin Kaepernick refused to stand like all of the other players and fans. He sat on the bench, in full uniform, in protest of the conditions African-Americans face, and how they’ve been treated by law enforcement.
Kaepernick, who is biracial and was adopted and raised by white parents, spoke after the game about why he did what he did.
“I am not going to stand up to show pride in a flag for a country that oppresses black people and people of color,” Kaepernick told NFL Media in an exclusive interview after the game. “To me, this is bigger than football and it would be selfish on my part to look the other way. There are bodies in the street and people getting paid leave and getting away with murder.”
I am one of those people who has been pleading/begging athletes with a huge platform to take stands on social issues, when their voices carry so much more weight than others. So I think what Kaepernick did took guts, courage and a whole lot of backbone.
I 1,000 percent support his right to protest in whatever way he sees possible. Those who scream and yell about supporting America and how disrespectful he’s being absolutely get to be heard. But so does he.
Kaepernick is going to get enormous blowback from this. He’ll probably lose fans (though honestly, he was a rising star a few years ago and his play has fallen off pretty drastically, so I don’t think his locker was all that stuffed with fan mail) and endorsers and the vulgar, talking yam Trump will probably condemn him (heavens no!).
But this is a man who looked at the chaos around him and decided to protest in his own way, following in the footsteps of Muhammad Ali, Jim Brown, John Carlos and Tommie Smith.
Good for Colin Kaepernick. More athletes should take a stand like this. Excellent column on this from Will Leitch of Sports on Earth.
**Next up today, this was kind of cool. The Dayton Dragons minor league baseball team pulled the old “line drive off the pitcher’s back, then off the umpire’s foot, then to the shortstop who steps on second and throws to first” double play.
Happens every day, right?
**Finally today, my good friend (and fantastic social worker and family coach) Catherine Pearlman had a pretty shocking experience at her 8th grade daughter’s Back to School Night for parents last week. With her permission, I’m sharing this here (she first shared it on Facebook), because sadly, I have a feeling this gym teacher moron is not alone in this thought.
This is, in short, what the gym teacher (a female teacher, by the way) told parents: Your daughters cannot wear yoga pants or leggings in class, because the boys can’t really control themselves, and could get an erection. And that could be embarrassing for them, and we don’t want that, so your daughters can’t wear yoga pants or leggings.
I mean… I don’t even know where to start. First, I cannot believe this is a school policy (and Catherine learned afterwards that the assistant principal was upset the teacher said this, and spoke to the teacher about it, but the teacher apparently said it again to another group of parents.)
Second, are you freaking kidding me??? We’re going to be so sexist and tilted toward boys that we’re so afraid they won’t be able to control themselves when they see a cute classmate in yoga pants? Let me tell you something, what we wore in gym class (boys and girls both!) at Burr Junior High was a pair of ugly maroon shorts and a gold t-shirt, and there was never a chance in a million years anyone got excited. Gym class is NOT in any way a sexy place, especially in junior high.
And third, really, boys getting a hard-on because a girl looks nice in leggings is something we’re afraid of? You ask any 12 or 13-year-old boy, and they will tell you: They get 14 erections a day. Literally ANYTHING can get a young boy in the midst of puberty an erection.
Just disgraceful. I hope that teacher gets suspended.