Matthew Perry was a fine comedic actor, and a good dramatic one as well. Of course the first line in every one of his obituaries, written much too soon late Saturday night when he was found dead in a Jacuzzi at only age 54, brings up his 10-year run on “Friends,” where he was the funniest character with the best lines (my favorite Chandler quip will always be, in response to “guess what?” being “The fifth dentist caved and they’re now all recommending Trident?”)
But he was so much more than being just Chandler Bing, or Danny on “Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip,” or the guy from “Fools Rush In,” or any of his other roles.
Matthew Perry was a recovering addict, and it was something that plagued him throughout his adult life. The guy got mind-blowingly famous before he was even 25, when “Friends” debuted and suddenly he and his five other castmates were the 1990s version of The Beatles.
Perry was hooked on pills, and alcohol, since he was a teenager, and just watching “Friends” episodes from different eras of the series would show you when he was addicted and he was clean: his look changed dramatically.
Finally clean in recent years, Perry spoke out about his awful behavior and how strong a hold the addiction had over him (He admitted once that he’d go to real estate open houses in California just to rummage through strangers’ medicine cabinets, to see what pills they had that he could steal). He was doing his best to be a cautionary tale, and he wrote a book last year that was brutally honest about his life.
Addiction doesn’t care if you’re famous or a nobody, whether you have $90 million in your bank account or barely $90. It can crush any one of us, and Perry’s bravery in speaking out hopefully will be remembered just as long as his hijinks with Phoebe and Joey.
“When I die, I know people will talk about Friends, Friends, Friends,” Perry had said. “And I’m glad of that, happy I’ve done some solid work as an actor, as well as given people multiple chances to make fun of my struggles on the World Wide Web … But when I die, as far as my so-called accomplishments go, it would be nice if Friends were listed far behind the things I did to try to help other people. I know it won’t happen, but it would be nice.”
Matthew Perry died way, way too soon. But his legacy of trying to help people should live on, and will live on.
**Next up, this is one incredible sequence that you could try 1,000 times and never have it happen exactly again. From the Columbia University women’s basketball team, Cecelia Collins, Abbey Hsu, and Riley Weiss make the shots of a lifetime while goofing off in practice.
I mean, the timing is perfect! Bravo, ladies!
**Finally, it was another thrilling, frustrating, “go figure” kind of day in the league where they play, for pay on Sunday. So much happened, surprise, anger, disappointment, elation… and that was just the Jets game.
Let me start there because I gotta get this out: This was one of the most offensively offensive football games you will ever see. I sat through some horrendous Jets-Colts and Jets-Pats games in the 1980s and 1990s, where it felt like it would’ve taken an act of Congress to get a first down, and this was as bad as any of them.
For nearly the entire game, the Giants offense was pathetic, as two QB’s, Tyrod Taylor and rookie Tommy DeVito, did nothing against the Jets D. But that’s OK, because Zach Wilson, whose baby steps of progress were erased in the sand Sunday, was so disgustingly bad as well. It was painful to watch, and as the N.Y. Post’s Brian Costello Tweeted out, “these Jets-Giants preseason games are tough to sit through.”
And after the final indignity, Wilson taking a sack on 4th and 10 with the last shot the Jets had (HE TOOK A SACK WHEN IT WAS THEIR LAST CHANCE!!!), mercifully, it looked like the Giants would win and put us Jets fans out of our misery.
But nope, the Giants refused to win. Graham Gano missed a chip-shot field goal, and with 24 seconds left, the Jets somehow drove 58 yards and kicked the tying field goal with one second left. Then the Jets won in overtime, 13-10, and I swear nobody in that Jets locker room should be celebrating. This was an awful game, one that calls to mind the great line from Prez in “The Wire:” “Nobody wins, one side just loses more slowly.”
The Jets are alive at 4-3, right in the playoff race, and Aaron Rodgers is healing miraculously, and I’m befuddled as to what I saw. Zach Wilson must be replaced at QB for the Jets; it’s just not fair to the other 52 players to have someone so clearly not good enough for this job, continue to be handed it.
Sigh. What a crazy game.
— OK so remember when me and everyone else was burying the Bengals at 1-3? Yeah, not so much. Cincy continued rolling Sunday, beating the once-mighty 49ers, and have now won three in a row, and Joe Burrow is looking like Joe Burrow again, and the Bengals defense harassed Brock Purdy, and yeah I don’t want to see the Bengals right now, at all.
— I love when new stars get born in the league: Sunday brought the NFL debut of Will Levis, former star QB of Kentucky, who went ahead and threw four touchdown passes in his first game, as Tennessee (wearing those sweet old-school Houston Oilers uniforms, above) beat Atlanta. I love that we have no idea if this is the first great start of a 10-year career for Levis, or if this is as good as it gets. Sports, man, it’s never scripted, you have to watch.
— The Pittsburgh Steelers’ offense might be worse than the Jets or the Giants. And the Jaguars are now very quietly 6-2 and cruising toward a division title.
— Patrick Mahomes is human. The Denver Broncos, who are beyond awful, slapped him around quite a bit Sunday, as the Broncos stunned the Chiefs. Yeah, nobody saw that one coming. Taylor Swift wasn’t at the game so she’s the lucky Chiefs fan, I guess.
— Kirk Cousins tore his Achilles, just as the Vikings were getting good again. Awful break for him.
— Finally, did you see this insanity in the Ravens-Cardinals game? A measurement was upcoming to see if a first down was made, and then the ref just did this … and nobody questioned it. How in the hell can we, in 2023, still be using chains and down markers to measure first downs??? And how did the ref get away with this???